At least one person even expressed shock and confusion that they weren’t living together, and would not be until after the wedding.Their reactions might be a little bit disheartening, but they were not surprising.
A friend was helping his fiancé move into her new apartment last week—what will soon be their apartment together, after marriage.
He noted to me that most people seemed to assume they were living together, and that’s why he was helping her move.
I know that sounds harsh, but let me explain my theory on Christian dating. But I do believe that if you are seeking God’s will about who you date, He will lead you to someone that is a true fit for you.
I don’t mean that your future spouse will be perfect or that you will think alike or always agree on everything. But I do believe that if you seek God’s guidance, He will lead you to the person who is going to be the match for you.
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Our desire is to accomplish this by bringing Christian singles together for marriage and then enriching their relationship lifelong.Pastor Mark Driscoll of Trinity Church in Scottsdale, Arizona, said that after receiving a "flood" of questions on the topic of Christian dating, intimacy and living together, he wanted to address the top three inquires in his weekly video response.Driscoll said that in all cases, including the three questions he addressed, Christians need to seek God's will first above all other things.1. The first question had to do with the "line" in dating, with readers asking where is the boundary that should not be crossed during a casual or serious dating relationship.Whether or not you are living together before marriage is nowhere near as important as where you will be living for eternity. But if you do call yourself Christians, and you are living together, then you are not fully letting the Lord be Lord over your life.And that’s problematic because the things God calls us to, He does for our own good. For Christ-followers, the first problem with living together outside of marriage is that it usually means you are having sex together outside of marriage.Is it OK to live together or have sex before marriage?