If Choi Minho wants to tie himself down, then so be it. But sleeping in the house would be easy because who doesns in a position in which you have a bit more wiggle room. You exit the bathroom, walk through your bedroom, and end up finding him in the living room. That’s why we’re making it.”“I’ll just make the pasta. just go fry the dumplings.”One thing you have begun to realize about cooking or working in the kitchen in general is that, under strict time restraints (such as the party in less than an hour), your temper can flare in all the wrong directions. “Speaking of babe…ies.”Aaand you rocket into a sitting position because, ladies and gentlemen, Choi Minho has found the ultimate conversation stopper. ”He blinks, rolling onto his back and staring up at you with tired, unfocused eyes. ”“You did not just say the B-word.”“The B-” he pauses. One milestone, however, decided to come just a little bit late. You thought Minho would ask you to marry him before he’d ask you to move in with him. You set the table for two, sit down, and hungrily eye the containers that have been set out between your two plates.Secretly, you think it was just to beat Key at being the first member to officially snag a ticket into the well. Het take you long to rifle through one of the linen closet boxes for a blanket (his old comforter in his SHINee dorm), and you return and drape it over him. I can make pasta.”“Filming a pasta commercial does not make you freaking Gordon Ramsey, Minho. And if Minho happens to be one of those directions, he ends up getting extremely pissy because he doesn’t exactly understand why you’re angry and yelling. Hes just a lot bigger and buys things for you on occasion. Minho smiles, pulls out his chair a bit, then bites his lip.
You can have such scenarios in religious or community gatherings, and hobby classes.
The location or the setting does work in your favor, but only small percent. If you can’t talk well, then no matter where you sit, it won’t help at all.
He was the one who suggested it, because, after all, he does plan to settle down in the future. You give a sigh of relief, roll over, and curl up in a ball into his side. Minhot causing earthquakes and avalanches with his sinuses.—When you talked initially about getting a place together and where to get said place, the thing you worried about the most was privacy. A plus to having Minho as a boyfriend - if you’re one for cuddling and mushy stuff when you’re asleep/waking up, he fulfills all of those needs. But you’re not even engaged yet, living together as a test of your relationship, and he’s just…Moving really, really fast.“It’s way too early to start thinking about having kids, Minho,” you scratch at your brow. Now go make your damn cereal.”—It’s safe to say that in the time (now, three months) you’ve been living under the same roof as Choi Minho, your relationship has hit quite a few milestones.
He may still be an idol, but with his hyungs scheduled to go into the military soon, hes past the age of company restriction when it comes to dating and marriage. You worried about sasaeng fans (though Minho assured you theys face looked absolutely wounded, and then you have another small panic attack because you feel like a terrible person/girlfriend/significant other. “Not now.”“You have a show to host.”His legs tangle up in yours, hands rub a small circle into the small slip of skin on your stomach that’s bared. “Babe, yes.”He shakes his head, nuzzling into the skin above your clavicle. This was not the way you wanted to start your morning.“But, eventually? You’re not entirely sure you are or will ever be ready for that responsibility, but with Minho, those pleading eyes and a personality that would make the perfect father, it almost seems kind of possible. There was the moving, the first night, the first fight and the housewarming, even the first official chat about kids. Every time he asked you to dinner or to go for a walk or some other sappy occurrence, you thought it would be ve ever gotten an order.
Some see marriage as the ultimate goal, while others just want to expand their social circle and go on some fun dates.
Be upfront with yourself, and be honest on your profile - don't say you're looking for a soulmate if you have no intention of settling down.
You may come across people who are married, has criminal background and people who may be mentally not that stable.
The key is "believe in your instincts" Get to know someone via email before talking on the phone, and have a few phone conversations before arranging to meet your mate.
It's a simple matter of maximizing resources to attain a goal.